[SM] How to escape from SM

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You probably can’t escape SM.

1.Reasons to believe that you won’t be able to escape from SM

Everyone is born with SM tendencies, but only some people realize that they have SM tendencies. If you forget your tendency, you can become a vanilla, but due to the nature of the brain, you cannot voluntarily give up your SM tendency and go back to vanilla; the brain finds the effort to forget a strong stimulus and it becomes deeply ingrained in the brain. It’s like a swamp that gets stronger and stronger, and the harder you try to get out, the harder it is to get out. If you want to get back to vanilla, you need to forget your SM tendencies by immersing yourself in something other than them. Even then, when reminded of the tendency, the SM tendency is quickly imprinted, making it impossible for someone who is actually aware of the tendency to give it up. so being vanilla is difficult, and because few people live lives that are inherently satisfying, many people suffer from their tendencies.

2.Don’t let Vanilla start to get SM related.

Don’t drag your lover down the path of being a tendency in order to satisfy your own tendency. All relationships are fleeting, and your fleeting desires should not lead the other person down the path of happiness, but down the path of SM, the path of SM from which you suffer. In other words, you are destroying the other person’s life with your actions, so stop making vanilla get a sm tendency.

[SM] Slave disposition and master disposition and presence

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What is the Slave and MasterTendency

1. Slave Tendency

The slave tendency is an ideal tendency, but it is extremely unlikely to exist. This is because the human ego is a constraint on the slave tendency. The human brain is focused on survival and tends to seek pleasure. Since the slave tendency is contrary to our basic purpose of survival, I assume that people who claim to be slaves are hard-core submissives. Therefore, the slave tendency is an idealised but unrealistic tendency.

*Slave: a disposition to give oneself up and become used or enslaved.

2. Master Tendency

The Master tendency is the tendency to seek complete control and *24/7 dominance over one’s subjects or slaves. Most people have emotions, which makes it difficult to exist in the real world as an idealised personality. However, there is a small percentage of people who have personality disorders such as sociopaths and psychopaths, so even if you meet someone who is a Master, it is unlikely to lead to a happy relationship unless they are also a Slave.

*24/7: The D/S relationship always applies, meaning 24 hours a day, 7 days a week

[SM Personals] Why so many people struggle Personals

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3 common mistakes for SM personal 

 

1.Not being honest in your bio and message

Many people lie in their self-introduction or write differently when sending a message. Usually, the first thing you see when you read a partner finding posting is the bio, unless you know the person, but if the bio and the message are different, can you trust the person? You probably won’t, which is why it’s important to be honest about the content of your cover letter and the content of your message.

 

2.Indiscriminate postings and recruitment messages.

Many people have acquaintances, so they often ask their acquaintances for their opinion of the person first, because they often have a similar outlook to their own, so if the same message is sent to their acquaintances, it is often filtered out. If you don’t know because the bottom is narrower than you think, or if you send a copy and paste message or indiscriminately, no matter how well you write the message, you will think that you are just poking around or that you can partner with anyone without me, so you will find someone who needs you.

 

3.Sending a message that doesn’t match the requirements of the finding partner posting.

When writing a message, it is recommended to compare what the person wants and what you are like. It is important to understand why the personality of the person and you are compatible and to form a consensus on that. Of course, there will be some things that don’t work, but it’s also good to write about how you can work on them instead of not writing about them. If you do that, you’ll feel like you’ve read the person’s finding partner post and you’ve at least been polite, so even if you don’t succeed, you’ll at least get a reply.